<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Holley Livingood]]></title><description><![CDATA[Midlife Diarist]]></description><link>https://www.holleylivingood.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2026 00:59:10 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.holleylivingood.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Patched Up]]></title><description><![CDATA[I'm starting to look like a tree trunk, my abdomen is absorbing my ass at an alarming rate. What? How? I like trees, but I miss my cute pants and high heels, and I will surely miss having a butt. In my 40’s I could cover the aging process with good posture, a little face powder, and some stretching. Now in my mid-50’s no one asks if I’d like a senior discount anymore, it is freely given. All of my shoes are comfortable, all of my fabrics are breathable, and the magnification of my glasses is...]]></description><link>https://www.holleylivingood.com/post/patched-up</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a2c66f8418318a8f7e25056</guid><pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2026 20:26:14 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/366afb_4f9b92e6b5be41d888c4d6e6a6f82f47~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Holley Livingood </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Dicks.]]></title><description><![CDATA[People with penises want to show me - you, all of us - their dicks. Maybe, on some level, that translates to their desire to be really seen, their vulnerabilities, hopes, disappointments, and ennui. Maybe? If I sound hopeful here, it’s because I am. I have been searching for healthy romantic connection with men since back in my “Sweet Valley High” days when I longed for my first kiss and had a painful crush on Silver Spoons-era Jason Bateman.  My mom provided my first close-up dick when she...]]></description><link>https://www.holleylivingood.com/post/dicks</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a1dbfd843a3e299a4b448e5</guid><pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2026 17:32:08 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/366afb_ca8e9d594b6246589f7477ae80865c9b~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Holley Livingood </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[My One &#38; Only OnlyFans Interview]]></title><description><![CDATA[During the summer of 2021 I was searching for my next gig. My resume read like an ADHD diagnosis: at-home-mom, fashion stylist, copywriter, sex club owner, and devoted generalist of gardening, travel, performing, and childcare. I was qualified for everything and nothing at all, my professional references were from fellow sex club owners, my last W2 job was in 2001, and I was looking for work during a pandemic. It was grim. Until I saw an ad on Craig's List looking for a live-chat agent for a...]]></description><link>https://www.holleylivingood.com/post/my-one-only-onlyfans-interview</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a15fa3ef3631a430c8d8cff</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2026 20:27:23 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/366afb_c4f3fce1216d494b85121b50b10e7cc4~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_884,h_598,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Holley Livingood </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Dabbler]]></title><description><![CDATA[While I'm my 50's I'm taking back the stuff that brought me joy in my first decades of life. I'm dabbling: improv, stand-up, mahjong, might even start sewing again. I'm leaning in to activities that require a sound body. The slow unravel has begun and I need more stretching, more supplements, and more sleep than ever. Gotta exploit this body while she's still functional! With this as a guide star, I decided to be a ski instructor this year. I figured I had all the necessary skills as a...]]></description><link>https://www.holleylivingood.com/post/dabbler</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a108c6d0ac12a65423b1ce7</guid><pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2026 18:55:51 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/366afb_49e2b33ebb6a48da925d4bae390a547d~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Holley Livingood </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Perimenopausal Inheritance  ]]></title><description><![CDATA[When I turned 40 I had two children, a 20-year-old marriage, and a wild hair up my ass. I’m 55 now, and with time and reflection it's abundantly clear that this was, in fact, perimenopause. We didn’t have TikTok in 2010, how was I to know? At the time it felt like I was finding my sexual agency - I was sexy and alive. It was intoxicating. It all started when I told my husband that I wanted to have sex with other people. Happily, he agreed so we opened our marriage and dived headlong in to...]]></description><link>https://www.holleylivingood.com/post/perimeno-palooza-s-aftermath</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a0df6699209fbd4f4f25160</guid><pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2026 17:59:56 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/366afb_200506f96bf04c9cb19884fbf1667954~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Holley Livingood </dc:creator></item></channel></rss>